How about a serving of self-love, Pisces? The moon cruises through your sign until Wednesday the 13th, joining Mercury, Mars and Neptune there. Compassionate soul that you are, your first concern is often how everyone around you is doingand you usually wind up making sacrifices in the process. But with this cosmic quartet playing beautiful music in Pisces early this week, its time to put the needs of Numero Uno at a higher-ranking place on that list. Tune in to your inner voice: what do you need, want, and desire? It might take you a minute to figure that out if youve been particularly disconnected from yourself. A little solo time can help, so cancel plans with the draining people in your life and hang out with me, myself and I. A visit with a caring older relative or mentor figure can also help bring you back to center. This need to pull back socially is certainly inconvenient, given that Valentines Day is on Thursday. But your celebrations will be far more enjoyable if youre not playing the codependent martyr as a misguided expression of love. And hey, Pisces, your honey might not even WANT that from you (at least, we hope not); yet, youve conditioned yourself to believe that you have to overgive in order to receive love in return. Time to turn that ship in a different direction! When you pause and stop doing-doing-doing, people have the space to step up and start returning some of your kindness and generosity. Give them a chance to do so! Be your own Valentine from Monday through Wednesday. Buy yourself a dozen red roses, a box of imported French bon-bons, and a 90-minute massage. A passion project may be calling your name. Devote your spare hours to developing it early in the week and let those calls go through to voicemail. People will just have to wait for a change! On Thursday, the moon moves on to Aries and your slow and sensual second house. Hopeless romantic that you are, its unlikely that youd ever dream of skipping Valentines Day. And if youve properly cared for yourself in the days leading up to it, you should be in the mood for lovin once again. This year, youll take your celebrations with all the Hallmark trimmings. Dress in your fancy frocks and head to an ambient restaurant (think: starched white tablecloths and fresh flowers) with a violinist, live piano player and gorgeous views. Read your lover a Rumi poem or a hand-written card, and dont forget the gift that you probably selected a month ago. If youre single, head to a swanky wine bar or sultry jazz club where you might connect with a fellow culture vulture or music aficionado. Posing for pictures will be fun too. You might even commemorate your date–or your lively night out with other single friends–with a vintage Polaroid camera. (The film is available once again from the-impossible-project.com). This weekend, a Mars-Saturn trine whets your appetite for fresh experiences and an expanded knowledge base. Is there a seminar or vacation course thats calling your name? Consider the bloggers intensive in San Francisco, the dance retreat in Costa Ricaand maybe even the teachers training in New York City!